Do I have to have this conversation if I have no interest in a friendship?
Advice
Eric Thomas: Who I play volleyball with is my own business.
I'm worried this will affect my professional reputation.
Miss Manners: Those of us who actually consumed less ended up paying for the big eaters.
He's dead now, and I'm willing to forgive if she tells the truth
These conversations just don't interest me anymore.
Eric Thomas: How can I help her recognize that her long-standing behavior patterns are isolating her? Plus:...
Dear Abby: The gossip in this community is out of control. Should I move?
Miss Manners: It seems wrong to accept so much money from her.
Eric Thomas: When I try to talk to her about them, she rants and raves.
