Plus: I'm 82 and he's about 30. Would it be creepy if I asked him to lunch?
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I resent having to give so much to my husband's family.
Plus: I'm thinking of taking a polygraph test to refute my mother's accusation.
When I encouraged her to make an exit plan, she hung up on me.
Plus: The support groups aren't set up for young widows like me.
He hasn't worked since his employer died 7 years ago.
He was flirty, I was flattered -- and then things fell apart.